Meals and Open House


For the past ten years or so, there are a quite familiar custom held by a rich (or a very rich) person, or a public (governmental) officials in the public holidays, especially the religious ones, in Indonesia. It is ‘an open house’. Despite of the political and business purpose of the open house’s holder, open house actually has a ‘very Indonesian’ meaning, where religious tolerance, social care, and any of Pancasila’s characteristics are bound together in this custom. Two big religious ceremonies in Indonesia, Idul Fitri (Lebaran) and Christmas are often celebrated by holding an open house in a home office of a public official or a private house of a businessman to show that they care with the surroundings. By letting all people from different social groups, religions, ethnicities, wealth or economic state, to enter their houses, the open houses’ holders also show their feeling of tolerance and the sense of kinship. Open house becomes a way to get closer with the people (once more, despite the implicit (or even negative) purpose behind it).

‘Open House’ according to Merriam-Webster Dictionary (2012) is defined as ‘(noun) ready and usually informal hospitality or entertainment for all comers.’ By looking at this definition, no wonder that an open house becomes a culture in Indonesia, especially when it is compared to Indonesian’s people’s natural characteristics, where put the kinship, understanding, and tolerance at the top of the social life.

Though open house just started for around the last ten years ago, it becomes popular today along with more and more people become successful and richer in Indonesia. Of course by looking at this view, an open house is also meant a ‘show off moment’ to flaunt and expose ones’ wealth, especially because in an open house the host provides meals and entertainment.

This Christmas (2012), luckily, a big open house was successfully held in Pontianak (Kalimantan Barat (West Borneo) province, Indonesia) by its governor. As a Christian and a public official, Cornelis can be said as an official who first started this custom around five or six years ago, at the time he was elected through a democratic political election. He started this custom (perhaps now a culture) in the first term of his government and leadership. Now, as he was elected for the second time, the open house was held again as an annual custom, but now it is held in his second term.

On December 25 and 26, the open house was held in the governor’s home office. Different comers from different background were welcomed to visit this place. As it was held the previous years, foods, meals, drinks, and entertainments were always been waited. People came for free meals almost without limitation! What a party, right? The meal time started from 10.00 am to 05.00 pm and restarted at 06.00 pm to 09.00 pm, a break for the Muslim’s afternoon prayer.

Well, it was quite interesting for sure. That was why, I and my brother took a digital camera to freeze the moments and to have some meals of course. We visited the governor’s home office on December 26, right at lunch time 😉

I didn’t visit the open house last year (2011), but I did come the year before. This Christmas, I wanted to put this simple story in my blog to be shared.

In the governor’s home office square, we can see a huge Christmas tree. However, it is more beautiful if it is seen or taken by the camera at night… its lights of course. In the front door of the house, people were checked for their belongings through a metal detector and some security officers. It was a routine.

A Huge Christmas tree
A Huge Christmas tree
Entrance and metal detector
Entrance and metal detector

The interesting part was already seen in this part. In Indonesia, besides a Christmas tree as a symbol and a must in a Christmas, there is also a Christmas ‘cave’ (gua Natal). It is a structure imitating a place where Jesus was born. So, we can see statues of Jesus, Mary, Joseph, angels, a huge star, or even some more properties such as sheep, and the kings. The structure or building of this cave is usually made of papers painted with colors of the nature: color of the stone, grass, and sky. Some people build it in their houses, and also the churches. Some build it in a tiny structure and some build it in a very gigantic form.

On the front wall of the home office, range from most corner side to another side, there was a long and huge Christmas cave. On the right side of the entrance, we could see a Christmas cave with statues describe the story of Jesus’ birth, while on the left side of the entrance – this one is unique – we could see a scale model of a long house, a traditional house of dayak people.

Christmas cave
Christmas cave
Long house scale model
Long house scale model

The home office of the governor consists of four main rooms. There are two guest rooms, one dining room, and a big hall with a stage in it. When we entered the building, we could find the first guest room. It was a Malay-style guest room, where the unique characteristics could be found from the style of the chairs, ceiling ornaments and chandelier.

04. Guest Room (nikodemusoul.wordpress.com)

Hey, there was also a welcoming Santa! A robot singing playback song over and over… it was interesting for kids for sure. However, after few minutes, you really wanted to shut down and kill this robot… ha ha ha… I couldn’t imagine how bored the receiving-line-guy over there… 😀

Welcoming Sanra-robo
Welcoming Sanra-robo

Well, I will skip the second guest room. It was the time where the governor served people to take a picture with him. So it must be a very crowded time and room. When I said ‘people’ I referred to ‘special’ people, perhaps some business people, public officials and their families, the governor’s relatives and friends, and more special people. Common person like me wouldn’t dare enough to ask for a picture or two (though I don’t think that the governor himself mind about this). It was the main room where the governor’s and his families’ rooms were located. However, despite dare or not one in asking for a picture, people were very welcomed to enter this guest room. To sit and eat (if you confident enough), just to look around (many people were curious to see the insides of the building), or to take some pictures by yourself). So, let just consider, the second room was prepared for people who were confident enough to be the ‘special’ ones – with a note that there was no prohibition to anyone who wanted to stay in the room.

The third room was also an elegant room. It was a dining room with beautiful Malay-style-ceiling and chandelier – and some dayak ornaments in the entrances. Meals were prepared for anyone to have them. There were dim sum, roti cane [my Indian friend told me to spell ‘cane’ with ‘cenai’], bakso, sate, empek-empek, some fruit salads, and some more drinks. I particularly decided to take roti cane [cane bread], an Indian-middle-eastern-based meal which is known in Pontianak.

Dining Room (the second room)
Dining Room (the second room)
Roti Cane
Roti Cane

Here too, actually I and my brother thought the same thing. People should be confident enough to sit and eat at the round tables in the room. Most people wore shirts, formal dresses, and some even wore gowns. People were welcomed to sit and eat anywhere in the place actually, but hey, who were able to stop the feeling of ‘eliteness’? We didn’t care though; the foods were hilarious, ha ha ha…

The last room was a big hall that could cover more than two hundred people. There were meals and drinks. Perhaps, ‘common’ people decided to sit and eat in this room better than the two previous rooms. Well, you didn’t have to speak, sit and eat formally and in particular manner, right? You can let your children running around the hall in mouthful of beef… ha ha..

Nice hall though. Dayak and Malay decorations and ornaments were beautiful stuff. Don’t forget about the meals and entertainment. On the stage some singers (or anyone who wanted to present some songs, freely) gave their best. Some even danced on the floor, with dangdut rhyme and a single keyboard player. In other words, this hall was placed for a really naturally public room.

Public dining room
Public dining room
The Ceiling
The Ceiling
A Christmas tree and the stage
A Christmas tree and the stage

On the corner of one wall, on the right side of the stage, I took a picture of ornaments on the wall with a stand piano. It looked luxurious.

Wall ornaments and a stand piano
Wall ornaments and a stand piano

Enough for the building, let’s go to the foods!

Three main foods were presented in the hall; bakso, lontong sayur, and rice together with side dishes: meats and vegetables. Each type of the dish was presented in two different stands, including the drinks. (Mention it, cokes, teas, plain mineral waters). Don’t forget, the Christmas cakes!

Bakso
Bakso Stand
Lontong sayur
Lontong sayur
Rice and side dishes
Rice and side dishes

It was totally all you can eat! You could come back for the dinner though…

In brief, it was totally awesome for you who were a foodwhore! Especially bakso, it is always be the most popular food in Pontianak (perhaps in Indonesia). No wonder, people would kill to stay on the line in front of the cooks to deliver the food for them!

Well, if you’re lucky, for the next four years from now, you can still experience this custom and culture, as long as today’s West Borneo’s governor still will be held by the same person. Full of hope, for the next governor, this culture will be still kept and maintained. I really don’t care if the governor won’t be a Christian anymore, as long as he/she will hold the ‘party’ in Id (Idul Fitri), Christmas or any public holiday … J

Singkawang in Square Shape


My friend just came from Germany – he’s an Indonesian who works in a very famous European car company – to visit his family in Pontianak (West Borneo, Indonesia) and to take a break for a while. As the result, he gathered around his companies and old partners in crime forcefully and he was serious in that. He succeeded in forcing them – including forcing his friend to also have a break from Batam just to come to Pontianak – to gather around and had some fun for some time.

We did the karaoke thing, had some dinner, and some more chatting with much more sharing. Well, it was decided further than that we had to take a trip before he went back to Germany. Travel therefore means more time together to have some more chatting while enjoying the trip itself.

Indonesia is an archipelagic country with the longest coastal line in the world. It means that we can find beaches in almost everywhere we go and of course high places as the perfect partner for beaches. West Borneo actually is not a tourism city as we know as it is well-known for other cities in Indonesia such as Bali, Yogyakarta, Bandung or even Jakarta. West Borneo is more a living business city. However, hey tourism is a business thing too, right? So, it is no wonder, we can easily find any tourism spots as well in West Borneo (though as I mentioned previously, perhaps the spots are not as well-known as Bali is). One of the most famous tourism spot in West Borneo is a city called Singkawang. I suppose all people or citizen of this province will suggest any tourist to visit this place.

There is a significant growth and development in Singkawang’s tourism business lately. The local government seems able to raise the city’s potential. There are more and more beaches for tourism spots, restaurants and cultural events held to draw and attract the tourists. The city is also succeeded becoming one of the favorite nationally broadcasted television shows in travelling program. It is also famous for its’s festivals such as Chinese New Year’s Day or Chinese Lantern Festival, since Singkawang is inhabited by Chinese ethnic group majorities.

As I said previously, most Indonesian tourism spots offer beaches and high places, it also works for Singkawang. So, there we go… eight of us went travelling. A rented car is suggested, though some also prefer motorcycles and public transportation for a three-to-four-hour trip.

We decided to have a lunch first as we arrived in Singkawang. We chose a restaurant in a high place; it is located in a hill actually. Batu Mas (literally ‘Golden Stone’) restaurant is placed right in the ‘area’ around the hill. We could find villas and more restaurants around the area.

As stated as the title of this writing, I purposefully put the images and photos in square shape. The photos are Instagram-effect-edited and Polaroid-like just for the sake of art… ha… Don’t worry anyway, I’ll put some more professional photos from the professional camera also later on.

Here we were in Batu Mas Restaurant

It was a-two-story building where the view was very stunning. However, we found out that the second floor would be better in the view and perhaps more private for eight of us. Though was charged for 10%, the result was satisfying.

First floor
A ten-percent charge
Second floor
Second floor’s view 1
Second floor’s view 2

Here’s some description in video:

Here come the meals …

Tofu and Green Bean … Yummy

Tofu and Green Bean

Seafood and Vegetables: ‘Pakis’ and Vegetables Soup

Pakis and Soup

More soup: mushroom soup and of course Indonesian can’t have meals without chili spices….

mushroom soup and chili spices

After having lunch, there was a quite interesting conversation. It was about table manner. Excuse us for having different table manner, or perhaps it was just our lack of table manner knowledge. Our common thought (in Indonesia) after having meals we should put the spoons and forks upside down and cross them. It means that we have enough.

Our version of after-meal-table manner

However, our Germany friend told us that after having meals, German (or Europeans) usually put the spoons and forks in the normal position side by side and without put them upside down. Well, it was quite something. All the seven later on would do this after we have meals 🙂

European style…ha ha

Next trip was to another high place. It was actually a new tourism spot and is still in the development. There is ‘Puncak’ in Bogor and ‘Kaliurang’ in Yogyakarta, and now West Borneo has a new one, it is called ‘Rindu Alam’ (literally ‘Miss the Nature’).

Rindu Alam higplace… We could see the sea with is beaches from up here…
Mountainous Rindu Alam

I tell you, the view of the sky was expensive…

Blue ….

Road to Rindu Alam:

Rindu Alam:

We continued to another side of this high place, we went to the forest. Well, it’s Borneo; we will easily find beautiful forests everywhere.

Next destination was beaches! The beaches are actually still in a hell of huge area. More than three beaches and tourism spots alike are included in the area (Including ‘Simping island’, ‘Sinka Zoo,’ and some more beaches). We visited ‘Tanjung Bajau’ and ‘Palm Beach’ in a particular purpose, to catch the sunset!

Taraaa…. Welcome to Tanjung Bajau beach

This beach is famous for its icon: a giant statue of Godzilla-like creature fighting with a giant squid. It was an interesting fact, because it seemed like a must that in any tourism spot there should be statues. Along our trip, we could find statues and more statues. Funny statues, serious statues, abstract statues, or even unimportant statues. It started with the statues of winged-elephants almost every corner near the Tanjung Bajau beach. In Tanjung Bajau itself we found giant statues of Godzilla (which we did not even recognize what it symbolized), crab, turtles, penguins and Mermaid. Oh, right, back to Rindu Alam forest, we could find giant statues of iguana, turtle and elephant as well…

Roarrrrr…Godzilla…what the….
Shot by Lucy Wong

Mermaid gigantic statue!

See what I said, statue. Anyway, enjoy the view of the sky though.

Mermaid and breath-taking sky

Hey… what’s this..?? Ha… please forgive our English..

Hmmmmm …..

Weeee…. They also had Ferris wheel. I always wanted to have a picture with a Ferris wheel as the background. They had a funfair including marine sport, banana boat and stuff.

Ferris Wheel
Shot by Lucy Wong

It was getting darker. Time to take more pictures … Enjoy!

Shot by Lucy Wong
Shot by Lucy Wong

Walked a little bit, and we’ve got ‘Palm Beach..

Palm Beach in the afternoon

And this was the main show … Sunset at Tanjung Bajau and Palm Beach

SUNSET

Was it time to go home?

Wait, we were hungry… We went to the Singkawang downtown to find some food. Chinese food would be great.

As the result, we visited one of the famous restaurant in the city. It was a Thai-Style restaurant with the literal name ‘Rumah Makan Ala Thai’ or ‘Thai-Style Restaurant,’ ha ….

Rumah Makan Thai

The cooks and their spices…. bunch of spices…

The cooks and their spices

Though the restaurant called itself Thai-style, the food was actually various from locals to Chinese food.

The menu in three languages
Shot by Lucy Wong

So, there we go… We had chai sim, Fu Yung Hai, Tom Yam, and more ….

The meals of Thai and Chinese

Don’t forget the rice..!

Rice of course

We were full, and we had learned the European table manner then… ha ha

Full, empty plates, and table manner…

Time to go home then… We had around for hours or so, because it was at night we chose not to be hurry. We stopped in a coffee shop in ‘Sungai Pinyuh’ around one hour to Pontianak to have a cup of coffee… Nothing more relaxing than a cup of coffee with friends after a journey..

Coffee with friends after a long journey

Hey, I still have more photos from a more professional camera. But for this moment, please enjoy these images and our journey …

Pulau Kabung [Kabung Island] Part 1: A Tiny Hidden Heaven


It is a tiny hidden haven placed in an island in West Kalimantan [Borneo], Indonesia, a fisherman’s village with unique and surprisingly hospitable people and culture. Bugis ethnic group lives in this island in harmony. They also produce clove and nutmeg, which makes the island smells good and colorful with the clove fields. Enjoy!

1. Clear and shallow water and tens of bagans [fishing buildings] in the middle of the sea. One can walk from the island around a hundred meter to the sea as if she or he is walking on the water.

Clear Water
walk on the water
the Bagan

2. Very clear water.

clear water
Peaceful
Dancing
Watershot

3. Fabulous sky in the afternoon preceding the sunset.

waiting for the sunset in the small port, surrounded by colorful sampans and tens of bagans
still waiting….
wait……….
PERFECT ……………… !!!

These pictures are only a few of tens photos i have. I’ll put more pictures and stories in part 2 … Be patient and enjoy the view …